feat: implement cross-node event broadcasting with NATSEventBus (#151)

This PR implements cross-node event broadcasting for aether.

Changes:
- UpdateVersionCache method in JetStreamEventStore
- SubscribeToEventStored helper in NATSEventBus
- Integration tests for cross-node scenarios
- Example code demonstrating NATSEventBus + JetStreamEventStore

Tests: All integration tests passing.
Co-authored-by: Claude Code <noreply@anthropic.com>
Co-authored-by: Hugo Nijhuis <hugo.nijhuis@flowmade.one>
Reviewed-on: #151

.product-strategy/ISSUE_MIGRATION.md

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+# Issue: Implement Actor Migration Between Cluster Nodes
+
+## Problem
+
+When nodes join or leave the cluster, actors need to be migrated to maintain even distribution. Currently:
+
+- `handleRebalanceRequest` in `cluster/manager.go:150` is empty
+- `handleMigrationRequest` in `cluster/manager.go:167` is empty  
+- `RebalanceShards` in `cluster/shard.go:211` returns unchanged map
+- `SendMessage` in `cluster/distributed.go:139` ignores sharding
+
+## Required Implementation
+
+### 1. Rebalance Algorithm (cluster/shard.go)
+Implement `ConsistentHashPlacement.RebalanceShards` to:
+- Calculate new shard assignments based on active nodes
+- Identify actors needing migration
+- Generate migration plan with source/dest nodes
+
+### 2. Migration Coordinator (cluster/manager.go)
+Implement `handleRebalanceRequest` to:
+- Accept migration plan from leader
+- For each actor in plan:
+  1. Pause incoming messages
+  2. Capture actor state (replay events up to current version)
+  3. Serialize state
+  4. Send migration request to destination node
+  5. Wait for ack
+  6. Delete actor from current node
+- Track migration status via `ActorMigration.Status`
+
+### 3. Cross-Node Message Routing (cluster/distributed.go)
+Implement proper routing in `SendMessage`:
+- Use `GetActorNode(actorID)` to determine target node
+- If remote: marshal message, send via NATS to target node
+- If local: send to local runtime
+- Route response back to caller if needed
+
+## Suggested Approach
+
+1. **Define message types** for actor migration requests/responses in `cluster/types.go`
+2. **Implement state capture** - replay events to get current state
+3. **Implement state restore** - deserialize and restore actor state
+4. **Implement coordinator** - manage migration phases
+5. **Add error handling** - handle failed migrations, retries, cleanup
+6. **Add tests** - test migration with mock NATS
+
+## Related Files
+
+- `cluster/manager.go:150` - handleRebalanceRequest (empty)
+- `cluster/manager.go:167` - handleMigrationRequest (empty)
+- `cluster/shard.go:211` - RebalanceShards (stub)
+- `cluster/distributed.go:139` - SendMessage (simplified)
+- `cluster/types.go:108` - ActorMigration struct
+
+## Acceptance Criteria
+
+- [ ] `RebalanceShards` returns new shard map with actor assignments
+- [ ] `handleRebalanceRequest` processes migration plan
+- [ ] `handleMigrationRequest` accepts actor migrations
+- [ ] `SendMessage` routes to correct node
+- [ ] Actors can be migrated with state preserved
+- [ ] Failed migrations are handled gracefully
+- [ ] Integration test with multi-node cluster